• Motivations

    Posted on June 23rd, 2009

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    Got this from an email from Jonathan Shek.. Do share it around. Just copy it and let your feelings flow.

    Two Choices

    What would you do? You make the choice. Don’t look for a punch line,
    there isn’t one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made
    the same choice?

    At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled
    children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
    would never be forgotten by all who attended.. After extolling the
    school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: “When not
    interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done
    with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other
    children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where
    is the natural order of things in my son?”

    The audience was stilled by the query.

    The father continued. “I believe that when a child like Shay,
    physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an
    opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it
    comes in the way other people treat that child.”

    Then he told the following story:

    Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew
    were playing baseball. Shay asked, “Do you think they’ll let me
    play?” Shay’s father knew that most of the boys would not want
    someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that
    if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed
    sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in
    spite of his handicaps.

    Shay’s father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not
    expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for
    guidance and said, “We’re losing by six runs and the game is in the
    eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we’ll try to put him
    in to bat in the ninth inning.”

    Shay struggled over to the team’s bench and, with a broad smile, put
    on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and
    warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father’s joy at his son being
    accepted.. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay’s team scored a
    few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth
    inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even
    though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in
    the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father
    waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning,
    Shay’s team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded,
    the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be
    next at bat.

    At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to
    win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew
    that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn’t even know how
    to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

    However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing
    that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in
    Shay’s life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay
    could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung
    clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to
    toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung
    at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

    The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder
    and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay
    would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

    Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman’s
    head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and
    both teams started yelling, “Shay, run to first! Run to first!” Never
    in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.
    He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

    Everyone yelled, “Run to second, run to second!” Catching his breath,
    Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it
    to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right
    fielder had the ball … the smallest guy on their team who now had
    his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown
    the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the
    pitcher’s intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high
    and far over the third-baseman’s head. Shay ran toward third base
    deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward
    home.

    All were screaming, “Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay”

    Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help
    him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, “Run
    to third! Shay, run to third!”

    As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators,
    were on their feet screaming, “Shay, run home! Run home!” Shay ran to
    home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the
    grandslam slam and won the game for his team.

    “That day,” said the father softly with tears now rolling down his
    face, “the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and
    humanity into this world.”

    Shay didn’t make it to another summer. He died that winter, having
    never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and
    coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero
    of the day!

    AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of
    jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes
    to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude,
    vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public
    discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and
    workplaces.

    If you’re thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that
    you’re probably sorting out the people in your address book who
    aren’t the “appropriate” ones to receive this type of message. Well,
    the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a
    difference. We all have thousands of opportunities every single day
    to help realize the “natural order of things.” So many seemingly
    trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice: Do
    we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up
    those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the
    process?

    A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it’s
    least fortunate amongst them.

    You now have two choices:
    1. Delete
    2. Forward

    May your day, be a Shay Day



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